The podcast · Season 2

PAUSEthe noise

Permission to reflect and reset.

Real conversations about burnout, boundaries, friendship, and life's transitions with Brian Lamar Stokes and Coach Lena Wilson. New episodes every week.

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How to make friends as an adult (and keep them)

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SEASON 2 · EPISODE 1

Friendship with special guest Tamika Harold

Lena's best friend Tamika joins us to talk about what really holds a friendship up: honesty, mutual investment, showing up, and taking the risk on connection, even after past hurt.

"Trust only lives where honesty does."Tamika Harold
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Season 2

S2 01

How to Make Friends as an Adult (and Keep Them)

With Tamika Harold · Trust, honesty, and showing up

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S2 02

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Brian Lamar Stokes

Brian Lamar Stokes

Co-host

Brian is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, singer, songwriter, and producer, and the voice behind the show's theme song. He brings honesty, warmth, and a little humor to conversations about life, family, and everything in between.

Coach Lena Wilson

Coach Lena Wilson

Co-host · Transition Coach

Lena is a transition coach who helps people move through life's big changes with clarity and confidence. She brings heart, practical wisdom, and real-life stories to every episode.

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Brian Lamar Stokes

Brian Lamar Stokes

Licensed Clinical Social Worker · Speaker · Songwriter

Learn about Brian's services, speaking, and music, and how to book him for your next event.

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Coach Lena Wilson

Coach Lena Wilson

Transition Coach

Learn about Lena's coaching and speaking, and how she can help you move through life's next chapter.

Visit LenaWilson.com
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